A quick reminder of the simple things we forget in our busy lives. about self-growth, self awareness and self love. In a quick and simple list of the things I learnt this year.
The best 31 things I learnt.

I started learning how to put myself before anyone else.
I learnt to not let people take advantage of me. Even when I didn’t care enough.
I decided not to let others see the disaster in me
before understanding it myself .
I learnt to depend on myself and no one else.
I learnt to ask my own opinion before anyone else’s.
I learnt to be weak,
I learnt to cry,
I learnt to give up and let go for no one but myself.
I learnt to not ruin myself for others.
I learnt to not stop my work to be available for others I learnt that there is a difference between those who care and stick with you and the ones that will leave the moment you do something wrong.
I learnt to know the difference.
I learnt to not hold my tongue back for someone else’s comfort.
I learnt to not stop myself just because someone else wants me to.
I learnt to not chop myself down and hand pieces of me to everyone around.
I learnt to let go of the ones that hold me down.
I learnt it is okay to be sad for no reason.
I learnt that I am always going to be with myself, And myself only.
I learnt to embrace that.
I learnt that maybe someday I will grow old and I will have bad ears and painful legs and I will still have to work on myself.
I learnt to put my choices above everyone else’s.
I decided my opinions and choices matter.
I decided to think about myself before anyone else.
I decided to not let the things that hurt me, just go every single time without a single punishment.
I learnt that I have a lot of flaws.
I learnt that I don’t need to impress anyone but myself.
I learnt I don’t need to laugh on shitty jokes and I don’t have to try making anyone laugh.
I don’t have to feel guilty about being cocky if I like it.
I don’t have to feel guilty about being too loud.
I Don’t have to worry what other’s think of me It is who they are, it doesn’t define me.
I learnt that I don’t need to be anyone else’s definition of beautiful but mine I learnt that I don’t have to listen to others if I don’t want to I can be myself.
And I can be alone.
I learnt that I don’t mind that at all.
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So These are the things I taught myself this year. What are yours? Let us know so maybe we can exchange notes and inspire some more 😉
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To be kind enough to adapt peacefully to changes and when things do change, to go to the next style of the new moment and let go of the last moment right away.
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That’s a beautiful thing to learn. I wish I could say I’ve gracefully learnt it but I really struggle with changes. I hope some day in the future I can adapt peacefully. Thank you for reading! 💜
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Occasionally it has helped to ask myself properly the wonderful question, that can break any negative thought up into manageable pieces:
Can I really be sure it’s true?
That and gleaning something, anything from the moment that is kind. Even if the only kindness I can find rings true at first being “Thank f*** that’s over!”
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This was truly inspirational.
We do need to keep learning to grow as a person.
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Thank you so much! And yes we certainly do. I feel like if we don’t grow we become stagnant and get stuck in a zone of just comfort. Where nothing ever changes.
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Completely agree.
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simply loved it !
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Thank you so much! So glad that you read it 💖
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What a lovely read, some very true points made.
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Thank you! So glad you liked them
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I’m late but I learned when to say goodbye…when to walk away…and how to be strong in my softness. 🙂 Thanks for the inspiration.
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That’s a really important thing to learn. How to be strong without losing your softness. It took a lot of back and forth to learn that. You’re welcome! Thanks for reading!
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Great belated birthday wishes
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😂😂😂 it’s coming back really soon xD
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An inspiring list… 🙂
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Thank you !!
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You decided to not let the things that hurt you, just go every single time without a single punishment. Lol beat the heck out of those hurting things😆. (Will start with mine after this)
Learned to let go too and since then, my life has been one heck of a ride.
Wow what a great list?!! I just love it all.
Thanks for sharing.
Much love,
Precious
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I couldn’t agree more. You do need to beat the heck out of them. That is when people know who to not mess with xD . Thank you! So glad you liked it!
Thank you for reading!
Much love ❤
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Life has so many lessons and we only get to learn them through being there, living. Great lessons!!
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Agreed. Everyday we learn something new! Thank you! Glad you liked them!
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It’s “received” e comes before I but you know don’t take my word for it. :p
And maybe you could also add this to the list :p
Jk lol and if you have seriously learnt all of that stuff and you implement it.That’s great!
One thing that I have learnt is that it’s okay to do stupid things especially if you believe in them and if you turn out wrong that’s another lesson learned. 🙂
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Oh. I ll check it out and fix it right away. Thank you ! Yup that’s another great thing. You know accepting the inner stupidness?
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Accepting the inner stupidness and being insane right? :p
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Hahaa exactly!!
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I absolutely loved all the 31 points. I believe if u really fit into the above points, you should be a strong and brave personality! Kudos! I really admire.
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I try to. So glad you liked them! Thanks you so much!
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It’s a beautiful piece…. self love is key
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So Glad you liked it. And I couldn’t agree more.
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Many of us spend a life time to learn all this. Bravo !
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Thank you! I Hope putting these out there is some kind of inspiration for he one s that take a little longer. Thank you!
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You learned alot of great things!
Stay happy always.
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I did! Thank you 🙂
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