The Best 31 things I taught Myself.

A quick reminder of the simple things we forget in our busy lives. about self-growth, self awareness and self love. In a quick and simple list of the things I learnt this year.

The best 31 things I learnt. 
The Best 31 Things I learnt

I started learning how to put myself before anyone else.

I learnt to not let people take advantage of me. Even when I didn’t care enough.

I decided not to let others see the disaster in me

before understanding it myself .

I learnt to depend on myself and no one else.

I learnt to ask my own opinion before anyone else’s.

I learnt to be weak,

I learnt to cry,

I learnt to give up and let go for no one but myself.

I learnt to not ruin myself for others.

I learnt to not stop my work to be available for others I learnt that there is a difference between those who care and stick with you and the ones that will leave the moment you do something wrong.

I learnt to know the difference.

I learnt to not hold my tongue back for someone else’s comfort.

I learnt to not stop myself just because someone else wants me to.

I learnt to not chop myself down and hand pieces of me to everyone around.

I learnt to let go of the ones that hold me down.

I learnt it is okay to be sad for no reason.

I learnt that I am always going to be with myself, And myself only.

I learnt to embrace that.

I learnt that maybe someday I will grow old and I will have bad ears and painful legs and I will still have to work on myself.

I learnt to put my choices above everyone else’s. 

I decided my opinions and choices matter. 

I decided to think about myself before anyone else.

I decided to not let the things that hurt me, just go every single time without a single punishment.

I learnt that I have a lot of flaws.

I learnt that I don’t need to impress anyone but myself.

I learnt I don’t need to laugh on shitty jokes and I don’t have to try making anyone laugh.

I don’t have to feel guilty about being cocky if I like it.

I don’t have to feel guilty about being too loud.

I Don’t have to worry what other’s think of me It is who they are, it doesn’t define me.

I learnt that I don’t need to be anyone else’s definition of beautiful but mine I learnt that I don’t have to listen to others if I don’t want to I can be myself.

And I can be alone.

I learnt that I don’t mind that at all.

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So These are the things I taught  myself this year. What are yours? Let us know so maybe we can exchange notes and inspire some more 😉


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32 thoughts on “The Best 31 things I taught Myself.

    1. That’s a beautiful thing to learn. I wish I could say I’ve gracefully learnt it but I really struggle with changes. I hope some day in the future I can adapt peacefully. Thank you for reading! 💜

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      1. Occasionally it has helped to ask myself properly the wonderful question, that can break any negative thought up into manageable pieces:
        Can I really be sure it’s true?
        That and gleaning something, anything from the moment that is kind. Even if the only kindness I can find rings true at first being “Thank f*** that’s over!”


    1. That’s a really important thing to learn. How to be strong without losing your softness. It took a lot of back and forth to learn that. You’re welcome! Thanks for reading!


  1. You decided to not let the things that hurt you, just go every single time without a single punishment. Lol beat the heck out of those hurting things😆. (Will start with mine after this)

    Learned to let go too and since then, my life has been one heck of a ride.

    Wow what a great list?!! I just love it all.
    Thanks for sharing.
    Much love,

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  2. It’s “received” e comes before I but you know don’t take my word for it. :p
    And maybe you could also add this to the list :p
    Jk lol and if you have seriously learnt all of that stuff and you implement it.That’s great!
    One thing that I have learnt is that it’s okay to do stupid things especially if you believe in them and if you turn out wrong that’s another lesson learned. 🙂

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